Yeah - I agree the new girlfriend is a sympton. The problems would have come up sooner or later.
She ain't helping though because I doubt many people would participate as an equal in her behaivour.
A couple of questions for any of you helping me out here:
1. Do they get over it - are they always going to be a little unstable ? I've never seen anything like this. 2. Do you forgive them ? I think I'd find this hard. 3. How long do you let it go on before you move on ? I think it might help the partner of the person suffering the MLC to at some point say I have to let them go and move on with my life.