I doubt the girlfriend is the "trigger", not that there has to be one.

Yeah, those sort of friends don't help.

As I posted earlier mine became friends with a female divorcee that worked for her and the others she began to hang out with were all single, younger partying types.

AS my C would say your W holds the key to this puzzle and all the issues and their resulting behaviors are generated by her.

Her new girlfriend is simply a symptom.

Like itching is a symptom of a rash.

Makes it worse, of course.

Last edited by sleeper; 08/09/09 04:27 AM.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.