Just another thought about setting a boundary. I filed for legal separation in April and he wouldn't sign final documents. Said he didn't want it, didn't agree with terms, etc. I have kinda let that go in the last month, but it's something I'm not willing to continue to ignore if he isn't moving toward getting better. So, that can be part of the boundary. If you haven't started IC by such and such date I will continue with legal process and finalize legal sep. That will be expensive and I'll have to hit my family up for help, but it needs to be done. I need help with wording. Whenever I have tried this in the past I just sound like his mom which is a long standing issue in our M. Any ideas anyone?
