The only advice I have is to have patience. H and I had a long talk tonight over a bottle of wine in the vineyard of TN and talked about what he went through. He said it is really hard, that he was TRULY confused, that it was hard to know what he wanted. I really believe H is confused, he keeps going back and forth between knowing what he wants and being confused. FOCUS on you. Do things for you and S. How about belly dancing lessons? jk. Or not. you probably would be a good belly dancer. Okay, I had too much wine at the vineyard, hoping you are laughing, don't tell mom. The house is empty next weekend if you need time away.