I like the way you are saying to head off other mistakes I might make.
The truth is its bloody hard to deal with it isn't it. Even now when I have a much better understanding of everything I bet I make mistakes by the bucketloads.
The therapist I have choosen I believe is pro-marriage.
I tell you what its like here - we just went out to a restaurant - wife & 2 kids. They are already starting to hang out more with me because she hasn't been spending any time with them. Everything goes fine though and she seems normal.
We get home she goes into her room, picks up the phone and calls her friend and proceeds to talk like a baby. Silly giggles - I mean real childish - she uses a different tone of voice and says pet pet all the time. Its like with me she acts like an adult but by herself / with her friends she is a child - max a teenager. My 5 y.o. son just came and said mummy is laughing & talking to pet pet - even he can see something is wrong.
There is some thing on the internet where they are selling something about dealing with your wifes MLC and it is exactly like her. You try and talk and get no repsonse - she is texting on the phone all the time and the only comments I get are she needs her space.
I reckon I have done plenty wrong in the relationship but what I don't get is how she can change personalities so seemingly easily.
