Steve,
Counseling is good, counseling is excellent with the right match between therapist and client...but if the client really doesn't want to be there, especially a MLCer, it is not going to help. They become masters at lying and flipflopping and hiding stuff, and sometimes they even fool therapists. Don't pin all your hopes on counseling, and don't try to force her to do it. If she doesn't want to go, don't fight her about it, just go on your own.

Uh, seems like a lot of "don't"s in that paragraph. DO work on detaching and making yourself a better person and being there for your kids. Oh, and protecting your financial future.

With my other posts earlier...'nuff said.

Peace,
Dawn


Me 45/H 47, no kids
Together since 1985; M/1992
Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001
Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues
H left 11/24/08
minimal contact, no legal action
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