Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

I think your H should deal with your S and it should not be put on you to "straigten him out". After all, he is hurt and angry just as you are...just in a different capasity. Like I said, somehow I miss something somewhere b/c I didn't even see those posts until now, but are you this angry b/c of how your H talked to your S or b/c your S knows what's going on? If not, then what did I miss that has caused the sudden change in you? You weren't this angry when OW was in the hopsital.

I'm upset at H because of his reaction to S.

I think you may have me mixed up with someone else regarding the OW in the hospital...