Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[sandi2]

I don't know how I did it, but I was trying to catch up on your thread and somehow missed this last part about your son emailing the OW. So, obviously my last post to you sounded very much out of tune with the subject at hand.

I think your H should deal with your S and it should not be put on you to "straigten him out". After all, he is hurt and angry just as you are...just in a different capasity. Like I said, somehow I miss something somewhere b/c I didn't even see those posts until now, but are you this angry b/c of how your H talked to your S or b/c your S knows what's going on? If not, then what did I miss that has caused the sudden change in you? You weren't this angry when OW was in the hopsital.