Thank you. I cried on and off for a couple of hours. Now I am calm.
I decided I am not going to speak a single other word about our situation to Dan unless it directly involves the kids and has be to dealt with. That narrows it down quite a bit. For example if they get sick or hurt and I feel he needs to know I will let him know. Otherwise, I am going to talk about logistical things with my lawyer. I will call him next week. That retainer will hurt, but if I don't use all the hours I get a refund. And he may ask Dan to pay for it anyway...
Time to remember that I am a strong, capable women with a lot of love to give the world. If H doesn't want it, I will share it with the other special people in my life. Focus on the positives and the blessings I do have. Plus the things I DO have control over. Which don't include my husband or his choices.
