Yes. This is the type of thing that hits you over and over in increments. You do need to detach. Hire whatever attorney you want, and let him or her do all the talking. You can't win by negotiating with him. He wants all the marbles all the time. Just let state laws take care of you. That's why they were passed. It's not up to Dan what the division is. It's up to the judge. So be it.