Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[givingitmyall]

Ash,

I agree with davidswife about your S not contacting the OW.

But, I posted this on my thread in response to your last post there and thought it should be here:

Hope you are doing well. I had to chuckle at your S's actions, cuz I could see my S doing the same thing in that situation. Don't be too hard on him - he's dealing with a lot too. Just make sure to keep your H off your S's back. I would tell H his choices come with consequences, and while S may not have properly expressed his emotions ( ), his emotions are not a surprise given the circumstances. They come from the fact he loves his father and sees that R crumbling.