A I caught up on last couple of days of some threads, I came across a series of posts discussing confronting spouse with proof of PA. Could anybody tell me whose thread that was or have any advice?

Gucci, Puppy. Advice on sitch change?

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac