Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Billclay18 needs guidance...will any of you please look at his thread?

Well, well, well...this morning S comes to me and says "I e-mailed the bi!ch."

Here's the e-mail:
You are such a bi!ch taking my father away from me and my mother. Your causing so much pain in my family. Thanks so much for breaking my family up bi!ch.

This occurred a few hours ago. H is at work and I expect one or both of us will be contacted once he finds out.

I felt I should talk with S about his use of language...but that was hard to do given the sitch.

I act as if no big deal, right? I did not know about it until after it was done. S is his own person and has a right to express his feelings.