Thank you Bonny!
Wow, the last few days have been a rollercoaster. Thursday night he asked me to bring my daughter out to the house to him when we were done. I told him I would bring some pictures and video of the kids that they had been wanting to show him. My plan was to drop off and go.

When I got there, he complimented me on how I looked and asked if I would like a drink. I was confused, but said sure. I figured I would let him take the lead. We looked through the pictures together (a trip to Yellowstone that the kids and I took last month) then I told them to give me a kiss goodnight so I could go home and they could go to bed. He asked if I would stay and talk after they went to bed. Again, I said sure.

It gets stranger. He just talked and I let him. We talked a little about scheduling (which he said was his main issue to talk about) but it drifted off to talk about the OW. I told him that was not my business and I really didn't want to talk about it, then got up to leave. He came over and grabbed my hand, then pulled me over to sit on his lap. ?!?!?!?!?

He didn't even seem to realize what he was doing. He sat me in his lap, kept talking, touching my arms, my face, my hair, my mouth. I tried not to respond. I finally tried to lay my head on his shoulder, but he pushed me back as though I had come up on him from across the room. I started to stand up and he just adjusted me on his lap and kept talking.

That was MAJORLY confusing to me. Nothing else happened and we kept talking, mostly about his confusion and me responding about the things I have learned. I told him that this was his journey and no one could make it for him. He brought up the OW again and seemed concerned that we were going to have some kind of altercation in public somewhere wink (That's not me at all!)

At that point I told him that I had no control over him or his actions and he had no control over mine. I told him that I forgave him but that I still had a ways to go to forgive her. Then I left, thanking him for the nice evening.