You sound much better in this last post...Had me worried for a few...Didn't want you to backslide
You are right, in time she will see it again however that is going to require patience from you...I for one am not a patient person at all...I have zero tolerance to wait for anything however this journey has taught me how to have patience...
If the F is rude, aggressive or angry to you - walk away...Don't show any emotion to her because number 1 - You owe the F nothing, nada, zip, zilch, zero and number 2 - it isn't between the F and you...If your W doesn't communicate - so be it however she needs to grow up and stop sending someone else to do her dirty work...
This journey we are all on because of our spouses, may suck at first, however I am coming to the conclusion, it doesn't really suck so much if you look at it the right way...
If we can all find a way to box the pain, hurt, confusion etc... and refocus on ourselves earlier in the game, we would all be better off...
There have been things that have come out of this that I wouldn't trade for anything...I have learned that I am responsible for my own happiness...I have learned to rely on my inner strength and faith...I have learned to not need anyone for anything because I am strong enough to do it on my own however if something comes up, I have learned to ask for help...I have learned to no longer fear the unknown - whatever it is, I will be just perfect...I have learned that there may be days where I am on the floor weeping with every fiber of my being but I will eventually get up and carry on...I have learned it is ok to be brokenhearted, angry, sad, hurt, confused, lonely etc...As long as you don't let those feelings/emotions take over you...I have met some wonderful people on this journey in real life as well as here and that alone is priceless
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
