Beepee, I used to do the same thing for months. H would email me and accuse me of whatever. I would defend myself and we would have these email wars just keep going until I finally stopped. Like a dozen emails a day usually. How that helped: it didn't. Probably confirmed in H's mind that's why he had to leave me or something. It doesn't help so why bother? You just lower your PMA , go down a cheeseless tunnel, and nothing positive comes from that. Plus, logic doesn't work with WAS. It took me again months to finally realize that after many here would tell me. It's really true.
With time, it's taken months, I've gotten better. He sends me a poke, it is just like that. And I 99.9% of the time just ignore it. I think it's good. You can do it!!! Karen
