Something that I have forgot to mention. My daughter has become a conduit of information for my xw. She has mentioned many things lately that would not just come up in normal conversation. There is no way that my daughter would just tell my xw these things without her being questioned.

I have even heard from my x "oh yeah, I ask her all about what you guys do." She has a lot of fun with you and I like hearing about it." There have been other things she has questioned me about that don't have anything to do with what we do though.

My x has questioned me in regards to a couple of female friends. "So who is this "xxxxxx." I hear about?" I am careful not to give to many details and at the same time I am truthful.

I know my daughter, and I ask her almost nothing about what she does with or whats going on with my x. I just don't do it. She mentions very little to me when I have her here. So for my xw to know so much about what I am doing and for her to actually admit she questions my daughter is kind of funny but at the same time my daughter shouldn't be put in this position either.


Don't stand still.