I'm wondering if the best thing that could happen would be a divorce. Is it worth fighting for someone who is emotionally unstable and immature. I get better conversations from my 8 y.o. daughter than my wife.
Keep reading, keep learning. Your wife didn't ask for this and you have no clue of the hell she is going through on the inside right now.
This decision is all yours. If you had some issues and were emotionally unstable for a time, what would you want her to do? Read and learn, the longer you stick around the more this will change you for the better as well. My only advice is not to mention a divorce unless you want one.
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My main concern though is with the kids - I'm unsure what to do. Any advice on how to handle the children situation would be appreciated.
You are all they have right now. So it's time to really step up when it comes to this, which I'm sure your already doing. This will bring you so much closer to them.
Never speak negatively about your wife in front of them. You carry the burden, tow the line and be their shield when it comes to this. They need you now like never before. Place your focus on them and improving yourself. You can only control you.
You may DB like a pro and things still may not work out like you want them to. There are no promises here. The only thing I can say to you is this will change you so much for the better if you allow it to.
