sleeper,

Thanks for your comments.

I'm hearing her talk like a child and it is starting to irritate me. That plus the constant going out and acting like a teenager at 33 is imo bizarre.

Atm I'm wondering if the best thing that could happen would be a divorce. Is it worth fighting for someone who is emotionally unstable and immature. I get better conversations from my 8 y.o. daughter than my wife.

I do feel a lot stronger now but the past 2 months have been hell. A complete change in personality & focus in someone with who you sleep in the same bed with is pretty tough.

Another issue with this whole thing is that her mother and dad are married but live in seperate countries and rarely see each other. Imo this is a divorce in everything but name and I'm not going to accept this. A marriage imo should be about 2 people living together happily for both their benefits.

My main concern though is with the kids - I'm unsure what to do. Any advice on how to handle the children situation would be appreciated.