Serenity,

Remember the "confused other party" in this sitch?

Sounds like he's using others because he's worked out the "direct approach" just wasn't working. Good on you!

Just because others are now involved doesn't change a thing as far as you are concerned. Except showing these same people just what a poop hole he's turning into.

I really don't like "keeping score" - has to many negative connotations but in this case who do you think is on top? Who do you think other people relate to positively?

As you said to me - you have no control over anyone else but yourself.

Pastor man is right. Look after Serenity. Be Serenity.

Loads and loads of hugs to you and yours honey.

Take a swing round to "my place" - take your mind off your crud and see if you can give me an injection of reality smile

Share and share alike smile

Mac