I am 2.5 years into DBing and until you really actually detach, you won't make huge progress. Once you do, you'll find a whole new WAS who's more curious about you and who is forced to take stock of her life and see what's she's missing out on. GAL isn't about generating jealousy, it's about working on yourself but it sure does work in my experience.
If she's annoyed about your softball outings or any other social engagements, GREAT! But if you're not comfortable with it, I'd recommend don't do it yet because your discomfort will be obvious and it isn't really GAL becauyse it isn't about you. Sounds like you have things you do enjoy so keep those up.
Hey mulesqb, great line from your Dad!!
-------- Me; 38 W; 34 1 4yr old S Married 4.5 yrs, together 9 yrs Bomb; 15 June 2007 Holiday together Sept 2008; My Dad dies Nov 2008; reconcliation fails Nov 2008
