There comes a time though when enough is enough with the verbal abuse and absolute rudeness we will tolerate from a WAS.
If she is angry at you that is her issue to own and work through. Or, she can stay angry and bitter forever. Either way its her choice. However, its high time she clearly understand you will no longer tolerate her lashing out at you.
MY problem is that my W is simply not communicating at all. She's leaving it all up to the OW "friend". It's the "F" that is being rude, aggressive and angry (after all she's lloking after my W now with all the attendant worries of supporting her.
I'd LOVE to send something like you did to my W but re-worded to include the b!tch who is causing all the trouble.
