Hey GIMA,

Back up, but may I suggest stop the watching...the watching part will drive you nuts. It nearly drove me insane.

I also wanted to add a note about DBing...it's necessary for us simply because we "lost our way" during the course of our marriages, so much so that it drove our wives away. The DBing gives us the opportunity to "fix" ourselves. Whether or not our wives want us back is a different matter altogether IMO.

Thanks,
LFH

ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009