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When I read about the block party my first thought was to surprise her and change the retro weekend so she does not mis the fun.
My gut is telling me that it would mean allot to her if you did that.

I think it would also show that you are lighting up about the R. and maybe it would take some pressure off.


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Personally, I wouldn't change the date. You've been so anxious of her not going in Sept. what do you think is going to happen when it gets pushed?

I'd just get it over with.


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Besides, the next retro isn't until next year!


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Orich-if you are serious about going, do not change that date. They'll be plenty of block parties in your future.

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The date is not changing. I am putting a lot of hope on this weekend that it starts us back on the road to R recovery. The sooner we are on that road the better. And if we end up on the other road, so be it. Better to get the mourning process started and done sooner than later.


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Originally Posted By: sandi2

So, I won’t keep on with this and will give space to somebody else to give advice to Orich. I mainly wanted to clear up any confusion or misinterpretations of my posts.



Sorry for the hijack. Sandi, please stop in and post some advice to BillM. Its only been 2 weeks since the bomb and he needs it.


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Just finished cleaning up from family party here at the house. The day went fine, w and I worked together well. I made sure to both interact and minglewith everyone, as this was something she complained about me. I also made sure to clean up afterwards. She is downloading pictures fr the day onto the pc and then on to facebook. I am going to bed shortly, as I have drank a considerable amount of whisky, and I have to get up early for Mass tomorrow. By the way, w looked very food today and I complimented her. She said thanks.


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Originally Posted By: Orich
I have drank a considerable amount of whisky...By the way, w looked very food today and I complimented her.


So, you drank a "considerable" amount of whisky today...and W looked "very food" today! I guess that's just the whisky talkin'!

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Lol! The g is next to the f! No wonder I was so hungry!


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Hmmmm, edible.

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