Thanks, wifey. At age 42, barring other health problems, you H's problem may well just be low Testosterone production/levels. This also affects the heart muscle, energy, mood and many other things. Easy fix, though.
The Gardener Blended Family Annual Seashore Vacation is in one week. Son One: not coming this year. Son Two: Couple of days. Preg D & her S/O: Not coming this year. Favorite Nephew: Not coming this year. Wife: Last two days (rented her own place, though). Me, Son Three, DIL & GS in huge 5 bedroom house. Oh, well. I'm thinking of leaving before my wife gets there. Wife said she thought our S&D wouldn't affect great blended family we built. Wrong. Everyone's reeling.
Wife said while we're there (before she arrives) she wants to come to house and get the rest of her stuff out of our bedroom and start processing her attic detritus. I've already removed every last trace of her and her belongings out of bedroom and her BR closet. In the basement.
Not comfortable with her here in empty house while I'm 200 miles away. Snooping. I've thought of changing the locks. Not sure.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
