So sorry to hear it Gardener. I do know that there have been people here that are able to lay out boundaries with their WA's and that PA's would be considered an insult. Still, not all WA's will hold to that. Seems many feel entitled to "happiness" regardless of who gets punched in the gut.

In my sitch, I had reason to suspect, but then my H got ED and it became a moot point. H isn't in any hurry to go back to doctor's to figure it out, so at least I know he doesn't have PA. Not that is makes me feel any better, but I have to let it go. I can't force him.


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.