I started reading "women's Infidelity Living in Limbo" by Michelle Langley. It has to be the most depressing thing I have read thus far about relationships.
Why in the HE double toothpicks did you pick that book of all books you could read in your sitch? Holy cow, man! Do you have a thing against trying to grow rather than just bringing yourself down? Why don't you just go out back of the woodshed and whip yourself?
How about you read things that will actually help you? Example, The Five Love Languages or Marriage Fitness for some insight.
For personal development, how about The Richest Man Who Ever Lived or Life Strategies-Doing What Works, Doing What Matters.
If you want perspective on how your W is thinking or feeling, stick to the threads by people that either walked or are thinking of walking.
Man oh Man, as if this whole thing isn't hard enough.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
