I'm trying to reconcile giving her space with giving her attention, which she is somewhat responsive to. But you know, I was rubbing her feet like this regularly before she brought up D.
I've got to stop seeking out physical contact - hugs and such. Let her offer, if she's going to do that (and has a couple of times).
She saw her therapist yesterday (second time). Told me she was going, but when we talked about her day, she described lots of stuff that happened, but not that. I'm afraid to ask what they discussed, afraid it's more of encouraging her to leave quickly.
