C
I understand what you are saying
You took the high road
you took the time to try to restore your M
You set an example for your kids, friends and family
You have grown , changed and learned

Your XH has done nothing except switched from wife to GF over again
nothing will work..no R will REALLY work for him anyway until he fixes himself
and if your Xh decides to not return:
You will have another R again one day and it will be sucessful
one day you will want to move on and you will
youve been thru a lot
so there is no timelines here
you take as much as needed
we cycle..let go..take back
we are getting closer to the total acceptance and we will be free and healed in the perfect time
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow