I could really use some advice. My w. and I went to counseling. I think I followed good DB principles and left her alone after the session. We are supposed to have another counseling session on Monday. I treid to get a babysitter for the kids. Tried quite a bit and failed. I got one for the first session. Now for Monday nobody in my family can cover it and our regular babysitter is on vacation. Anyway I come home tonight and tell her that I couldn't get a babysitter. I ask her if she could ask anyone in her family. She says, "No. I guess we will have to cancel." Now cancelling means weeks as the counselor is leaving on vacation. I told her, "OK I guess we will have to wait." She was cool as hell. My question is this, do I just cancel the session and say, no counseling for the next couple weeks. Or do I go to extraordinary lengths to get a babysitter. I'm torn as finding a babysitter used to be her responsbility (so getting one would be a 180). On the other hand she seems to be putting all the responsibility on me and if I get one I am afraid it might be pursuing. Thoughts?
