Kev-All I needed to read in your post was her "not compromising her lifestyle". She's a big girl. It's her problem. Stop rescuing or trying to rescue. You think you are helping her and in turn helping you. It only makes you look weaker. That's the last I'll post about it. You decide.

Mules

M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.