hhh-I may have mentioned this before, forgive me if redundant. Consider a less dramatic goal, asking your H to make the phone call to the Team. They can help with the decision of whether or not to attend a weekend.
Obviously, one spouse needs to initiate the registration process (which I think you've done), but the other spouse needs to attend willingly. Again, the Team can help, but they are not there to fill slots.
It sounds in your posts that you have some expectations about the weekend. Yes, it's very powerful. But you need to relax. The process takes time.
Sorry for the thread hi-jack. Peace. Goldey