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You cannot control what he or anyone else on this planet thinks of you. All that trying to get him to see the truth is doing for you is sapping your energy and leaving you frustrated.


I know, thats why starting today, I'm going to stop.

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But it's not *his* fault you respond. It's yours. So accept that, learn from it, and make better decisions.


I never thought it was his fault at all that I respond. I know its all me and my inability to ignore his accusations. I know I need to stop. Its hard but I know I have to do it. I'm making a lot of mistakes through all of this but I'm trying to learn from them. No more. I'm not going to argue my point anymore. No more defending myself, no more trying to get him to see what I see, no more accusing him, no more.


Me: 25 years young
H: 37
No Kids
M: almost 3 years (anniv coming up Sept 25th)
Together: 4years
Bomb: June 12th, 2009

**LOVE WILL FIND A WAY FOR TWO FOOLS IN THE RAIN**