My W says M called her yesterday with a "really weird conversation" about his M problems. M is the guy who without asking/telling me, called my W a day after the bomb to tell her she was wrong about wanting a D. Yes, that royally ticked off my W so I think, hope we're not headed down that road again. W tells me M asked to meet with her to talk about his M issues (M's W and mine are close friends). W tells me she told M that D was "tragic and sad.". So, I am waiting to see where this goes. I agree with W by just nodding my head. I said I had just spoken to M about this and that I thought there was a lot of work to be done by M and his W.
Why does M think your wife has insight for him that will be useful? Do you think your wife is in a mentally and emotionally healthy place to be giving marriage advice? Is this normal for them to talk about problems together? Are these discussions going to be transparent with you?
Makes me wonder why your buddy thinks your wife has insight for him. I would suggest that you are the one he needs to be talking to.
Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
