Trusting,
I too face that problem in the future. Here is the plan I came up with.
You can contact the funeral home and request an after hours final good bye. I hear it is done all the time.
That way it is about you.

And you get to avoid any uncomfortable situation.

I will be honest,I am not sure if I will do this or not. But I thought I would throw it out there as an option.
It is done ALL the time.


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.