I had been aggravated with her because of my daughters complaints lately. So when I heard about this, I gave myself several days to cool down and avoided her. I watched her interactions with this fellow and when I noticed whenever I would come near him he would drop his eyes and avoid me I began figuring something up if not with her than him. So I decided to reduce contact with my wife to next to nothing. Noticing she would constantly be looking at me and trying to get some type of interaction from me at home.
One evening I was on the deck having a late coffee and she came up to make small talk and asked me whats up. I straight out told her, "One of your friends asked me "what's going on between your wife and so-n-so?" and I have been watching your interactions with him and they do not seem appropriate, in fact, they are very disrespectful in front of me, my friends and our children if other people are commenting to me about it." She became immediately defensive and agrumentative then went straight into demanding to know who told me. This went on for five minutes and in ending I told her you were not very convincing which makes me all the more concerned.
Why not get to know him? He seems guility of something. Guys do have a very strong ego about these things, and I am no different.
More questions, Shoot. I can't figure my wife out anymore and I am losing interest in trying. Anything to help me think about this from another approach is very appreciated.
