I agree with the others. Defensive, bashing your marriage, quick to anger... If your intel is good, it would make sense that you've discovered someone she's bonding with, and, considering the status of your R, you are right that she (and you) are ripe for a PA.
Just curious... How did you bring it up to her? I'm wondering what your approach was, tone, etc...? It might explain her response to us.
Why not get to know the guy a bit? YOU the loser, if so? NOT! He'd be the one doin' a married woman, practically under your nose!
More nosey questions, but I'll hold off for now! LOL
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
