I want my Monkey and Sheep Back

[25yearsmlc]

My other post about the email is moot now....

SO, just do what SD said. Please don't reply to his latest guilt/victimhood attempt. Let your silence be the last word b/c the more you do this "verbal fencing" the more you look like a woman who is not healing and moving forward in her life.

Can't believe this guy is 37 y/o...."just a signature"...you mean, perjury? But don't engage in this anymore. It's manipulative on both sides and it's a scorecard and you both are doing the victim thing...enough!

Let silence be your last word and move on as if he's in the Austrailian bush and is unreachable for 3 years. If he grows up and wants to reconnect, he can man up to it and find you. Otherwise, it's time to do the real 180' and NOT give him all this power....good grief. In the meantime you will have healed & become a woman in charge of her life/happiness. RIGHT?
j-

PS I used to walk by a homeless man who lived on a grate every day on my way to work. He hated me for some reason & it bothered me that he did. I'd ask myself what I was projecting or doing to set him off. One day my boss was with me and the guy kept screaming at me and the boss said, "is that your old boyfriend"? Which made me laugh hard as heck but then I thought, "Wow, I've given so much energy to wondering why a guy who lives on a street grate doesn't like me when he knows nothing about who I really am...so...WHO CARES??" Same goes for your h and his ilk.