OK, OK, OK. I get it. I swear I get it. When she gives the me the line, I take it every time. I keep thinking that this point will get through to her...Obviously, I am wrong every time. I promise to not do that anymore. I know guilt is not the way to go. Even if it worked it would be temporary. It is just that this is destroying my kids and that is the part that makes me angry. She keeps saying this is what is best for the kids. This isn't about the kids, it is about her.

We can have 3 good days in a row. I think that I can do this no matter the outcome, then wham she gives me a shot and I take the bait.

The only good thing that came out of this arguement is that she did cancel her therapist due to the fact she was getting pushed towards divorce. Just wish she would have told me that two days ago...

Thank you, Thank you for your direct advice.

Remarried 6 mo
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