K4D Rising #4

[K4D]

Here is the thing. She picked this health insurance plan that costs $600 a month. They didn't take out initial premiums the first couple of months. So they started taking out back premiums plus current premiums which brougt $1,200 a month out of my W's paycheck. I didn't help out with any of that being as how I thought it was a bad plan to begin with and I told her that, but she signed up for it anyways. Again, my thinking was that she already makes almost twice what I do, so she can pick up the premiums. Everything else I split the bills with her. But between that and missing work and the van needing repairs and her not compromising her lifestyle, she has hit some financial issues that she is trying to figure out how to cover. She has to get caught back up on her rent and now will probably get another vehicle. Of course she won't choose something smart and practicle to drive. She has to go for the bigger better vehicle.

Ya, I hold the title for the van and would have to sign it over for her to trade in along with maybe having to help her out financially for a month.

I guess I am just wondering what Jesus would expect of me in this situation. I am her covenant H regardless of what her mindset is. Does he expect me to help out being that I am her H? I would think that he does if she truly needs help. But I would think she could curve some things first before asking.

We will see what she does. I know that I will not co sign for a new vehicle for her given the obvious situation at this time. Maybe she will be able to get it without me.

"give me money" sex. Interesting. That would be expensive sex. lol.

Kevin