@mlj -- I was having a conversation with a diplomat from Poland a couple months ago who was a divorce attorney in Krakov before he joined the Polish foreign service. Walkaways in Poland say the same things they do here! He couldn't stop laughing at the look on my face when he said the most common thing he hears from his clients is, "I love him/her, I'm just not in love with her/him anymore." The Fog is universal.