Interesting wrinkle. Came home to go to meet and greet for kids' school. On way home, called a friend of mine (we'll call him M) just to check in - he has helped me through some rough times with my sitch. He starts telling me he is frustrated and fed up with his W. I gave him DR to read last week when he said he was starting to have concerns about his M. I gave him good advice and will check in on him later today.
So after picking up the fam, we head to the kids' school. My W says M called her yesterday with a "really weird conversation" about his M problems. M is the guy who without asking/telling me, called my W a day after the bomb to tell her she was wrong about wanting a D. Yes, that royally ticked off my W so I think, hope we're not headed down that road again. W tells me M asked to meet with her to talk about his M issues (M's W and mine are close friends). W tells me she told M that D was "tragic and sad.". So, I am waiting to see where this goes. I agree with W by just nodding my head. I said I had just spoken to M about this and that I thought there was a lot of work to be done by M and his W. That's all I said. The conversation then changed to something else.
I think I handled this the right way, and I don't think W believes I put M up to this - I didn't.
Question: do I tell W that if she meets with M, that's her deal and I have not put him up to this (if she thinks I want M to fish for info about my M). Or, do I just leave it alone?
Anyone have any other oservations of significance from this? Just strange.
