harpo has it right. There can be light at the end of the tunnel, though it may not be the light we expect. We're all hanging in there. But like DR says, no matter what happens, we will find happiness again.
Me: 35 W: 31 D10, S7, S2, S11 months M: 11 years Tricked into separation. In Last Resort.
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053