I have read and re-read chocolate_eyes posts. I am very good gathering intel. I know where MY car is and I know whats going on in MY house. It would be a pretty lousy physical affair, if so. but you never do know....
Originally Posted By: DCBHM
Extreme defensiveness, degrading your marriage
The marriage is in a pretty degraded state right now.
Originally Posted By: NoCodeBlues
I agree with the others, her defensiveness is unwarranted. She should be trying to ease your concerns and trying to discuss this with you.
That is why I posted here. Very defensive. However isnt there some book on Infidelity that says, men give flowers woman give oral sex? I didnt get that. i did let her know I was very concerned and that seemed to make her more angry.
Originally Posted By: kat727
if other people are taking notice...
I am questioning that to. not sure why someone would say something like that. then drop it. strange.
