I got a really really really really really long email from him and I just don't know what to do. Its a lot about our relationship, how he feels, how I feel, how he doesn't understand why I think the way I do.
I'm so tired. I don't know what to do. I can't ignore this email. The accusations and assumptions are too serious.
Manipulation. Again. He tried one form (I thought we could meet, but now I see we can't...and then guilt), and now he's trying another--attacking.
You DO NOT have to defend yourself. Do you know the truth? That's all that matters. What do you gain by responding to his email? Do you really think it will change his mind? It won't.
This is WAS spew. Alien crazy talk. Ignore it...remember, NONE of what they say, and 50% of what they do.
The pull you feel to respond is just emotion. You'll make a bigger statement by not responding.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
