I am not an overly religious person but I did pray for God to help save my marriage and said all the things that go along with that. When it was fairly obvious the divorce was indeed going to happen, I stopped and started focusing on myself and my kids. I prayed for strength to get through this and to be a better person and a better parent.

I don't get between ex and the kids. That is his mess to clean up. Sure he wants to put the blame on me but my kids are fully aware of what the score really is. They hear him say one thing but his actions never back it up. The sooner you stop keeping score the better. It is his loss. Hopefully he will get it eventually.

Keep being the great Mom that you are and loving your sweet kids.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory