My W called and told me tonight that our van is going to cost more to fix than it is worth, so she may trade it in for another vehicle.
Then she told me that she may need me to help her out financially for a month.
Kevin
Hey K!! Wow this is a surprise. Not! Just remember what she has been saying to your SIL about you. I think she has some set on her to come and ask you for money. She is going to use you, and try to take advantage of your good nature. Don't fall for it. Don't forget that she owes the rent money also. Bro, if I was you I would not give her one penny. I guess the grass is not greener, but that's not your problem.
Here's your opportunity.
"W - I'm very sorry to hear you are going through financial difficulties right now. That must be so hard. I really hope things turn for you."
And leave. Bro, this is what she wanted. Let her have it, but don't throw it in her face. Lovingly detach, remember. She leaves you despite you being there for her, watching all the BS, hearing lies she's saying behind your back, and now she wants help????
Kev - this is an opportunity to look attractive. Show that you have moved on.
Just my $.02.
Strength and Honor.
Mules
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.