My pastor told me to take myself out of the equation and just let him have kid time; and the Christian counselor I called said to enforce the structured separation and hold my boundaries unless/until he was willing to seek help.

Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17