I kept going through phases where I thought I was ready to date. I am probably there more so now. The divorce was a year ago. But I think you also have to know what you are ready for. Are you looking for someone fun to do things with or are you looking to find someone new for a serious relationship?
As my wise friend Karen told me, I don't think you are ready for the serious relationship yet. I imagine you aren't really either. I think it is time for just a fun R and not worrying about the long term yet. It is all going to come in good time. The future will get here when it will and not one moment sooner.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory