i agree with forward -- it depends on your situation.....i guess my thoughts are act like OW doesnt exsist when making your decision, and you are divorced from your H -- would you go then....I say dont let her be the determining factor...we always hear -- this whole thing isnt really about them...i dont know just a thought....
I know this doesnt matter in your decision, mostly just curious, is this step Mom --- was she an OW herself with your H Dad?
